What to Bring to a Kid’s Birthday Party

Got a party invite and now you're wondering what kind of gift to get? You're not alone! There aren’t strict rules around birthday gifts, but there are some unwritten ones that most people follow.

Here’s a simple guide to help you figure out what to bring, how much to spend, and what’s expected based on the child’s age.

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🎁 First Things First: Do You Have to Bring a Gift?

Most of the time, yes. Unless the invite clearly says “no gifts,” it’s expected that guests will bring something small. You don’t need to spend a lot. A thoughtful or fun gift is often more appreciated than something expensive or fancy.

It’s also totally fine to ask the parents what the child likes. They’ll usually be happy to give you a few ideas.

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👶 Ages 1 to 3: Baby & Toddler Parties

Let’s be honest... these parties are mostly for the parents! The little one won’t remember much, but gifts are still part of the fun. 

Good options include: 

• soft toys, 

• baby books, 

• bath toys, 

• stacking blocks, or 

• cute clothes.

Budget idea: R100 to R250

Sometimes parents even say “Just bring yourself,” especially for first birthdays.

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🧒 Ages 4 to 6: Preschoolers

Now the kids are starting to enjoy opening gifts and playing with them. They usually love anything colourful, messy, or noisy. 

Think 

• playdough, 

• puzzles, 

• storybooks, 

• toy cars, or 

• anything with Peppa Pig, Spiderman, or Barbie.

Budget idea: R100 to R200

Craft kits and painting sets are also a big hit at this age.

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🧑‍🎓 Ages 7 to 10: Primary School Kids

This is when kids start having their own opinions. You’ll want to check what they’re into. Some love LEGO, others want books or stationery, and some are obsessed with Pokémon or Minecraft. Vouchers for places like Takealot or Typo are also a solid choice.

Budget idea: R150 to R300

If you’re not sure, just ask the parents. They'll usually give you a few suggestions.

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👧👦 Ages 11 and Up: Tweens & Teens

Older kids are a bit trickier, but also easier in some ways. Many prefer cash or vouchers so they can choose what they want. Some cool ideas include skincare, cute water bottles, mini speakers, headphones, or phone accessories.

Budget idea: R200 to R400

A lot of kids in this age group get group gifts from friends — everyone chips in for something bigger.

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✅ Bonus Tips

• Books are always a good choice if you’re not sure what to get.

• Skip the sweets unless you know the parents are okay with it.

• Personalised gifts or something handmade can be really special.

• Fiver parties are becoming a thing — each guest brings R50, and the birthday kid puts it toward something big.

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At the end of the day, it’s the thought that counts. Pick something fun, age-appropriate, and simple. The kids will love it, and the parents will appreciate that you made the effort.